Last month, we as a family had a blast one weekend making this "trailer".  This is the first time the internet has been reliable enough to upload it.  We hope you enjoy "The Fantastic Four" starring Caleb, Luke, Elijah and Hope.  I finally got it to post in time for today, Luke's 6th birthday!  Happy Birthday, Scooter!
 
 
Last week's meetings allowed us the opportunity to visit with our good friend from Peru, Arnold.  The kids loved seeing him (and enjoying the peruvian treats he brought us)!
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Luke has graduated from preschool! :).  And, to be honest, it is celebrated pretty heavily here.  The kids get presents and flowers (we came up with a toy car for Luke- much less than his buddies).  And they had a big program (nearly 3 hours long!) with it ending with Luke's class dance (see video below).  It was adorable.  We are proud of his dancing and, especially, how much Spanish he as learned since we've arrived in Mexico.
 
 

written by John.

"Once upon a time, a man from our town was offered a gift- sheep's wool.  The man held the strings of wool in his hands but could not figure out how to use it.  The gift was taken from him.  Some time later, a virgin appeared to a neighboring town with the same gift- strings of sheep's wool.  That man studied the materials and discovered he could weave beautiful things from the strings of wool.  Because this man had used the gift well, his town prospers.  And because our town failed to use the gift, it is a town destined to poverty."  -told by our neighbor

"We are a forgotten people."

"Most people in our town rarely use the word 'happiness'.  They really don't know what it means."  -a believer in our town

"Last year, he got drunk and beat his wife- her nose was real flat and she had to leave"  

"She always chooses brutal men.  Her husband beats her and is a brutal man, but not as brutal as her previous husband."

"We are destined to poverty.  We believe it cannot change."

These are our neighbors.  This is their life.  From the lady across the street with the bloody nose and the distant gaze to the men who work but make no money, they are a people without hope.  Many have lived and worked in the United States- they have tasted a different life.  But, in the end, this is their village.  This is their people.  And this is there lot in life.  They feel without hope. 

When I speak to people in the USA, they usually ask me, do you like it where you live.  While in Costa Rica, I would respond by saying how amazing it is to live so close to a tropical paradise and reference the volcanos, rain forest, etc that I got to visit.  While in Peru, I'd tell of the food- some of the best in the world.  I'd share about my Peruvian friends, amazing people whom I'd love to work alongside again.  But here, I've come to a realization.  I'm living in a darker place.  Oh, don't get me wrong, there are plenty of dark places in Costa Rica, Peru and the USA for that matter.  But now, I'm living in the middle of it.  This is my harshest encounter with the hopelessness that comes from a place with very little gospel witness.  We don't stay because we "like it here".  We don't stay simply because "we love the people".  (After about the 1000th lie I'm told directly to my face, my "love for the people" wanes).  No, we stay because CHRIST LOVES THEM!  God is calling on people right here to be saved.  There are already a few believers here.  God wants people from this "tribe and tongue" to worship Him around the throne.  We stay because HIS love constrains us.

The people say they are without hope.  The land is rocky and dry.  There are many without a well, and water is very limited.  The community politics are confusing at best, and chaotic at worst.  The people work but don't make money.  Life is futile... and then there is Christ!  He is calling to them.  They feel forgotten but HE sent my family to them.  They feel without hope, but HE offers them hope, peace, life.  In HIM, Mezcal (liquor) quits ruling men and fists quit governing women.  In HIM, they can stop fearing "the evil eye" and "losing their soul" and they can know "that greater is he that is within them and he that is in the world".  HE does, in fact, offer HOPE.  They are not forgotten by Him.  And, HE already speaks their language.

 
 
Man, I can't believe how fast you can fall off a good habit! Ugh! Well, I have lots to tell. 
I guess I'll just say a few highlights and I'm also going to put up some pictures on Dropshots (click on Photos and Videos) and on facebook if you're on there.  Pictures always do good at telling stories, too!

Some highlights:
  • We are progressing in our language- GLORY TO GOD! And here begins that fun stage of humiliation!! :) Well, here we have 4 greetings! We have a way to say, "Good Morning,"  "Good Middle of the day" (what you say right at noon- which is always funny to me that there's a whole expression for if you happen to pass someone at the stroke of noon!!), "Good afternoon," and "Good night." And you really say all 4 every day! So, here are some of the responses I've gotten as I've tried out my new words:  pure joy upon hearing me try, looking at me like I just fell from Mars, a harsh correction that I was saying the wrong saying at the wrong time, and just the normal repeating the expression back (which is my favorite and obviously what you hope for!) 
  • We have planted!!!! :) John and I realized that, for almost 12 years of marriage, we have never put anything in the ground! :) I blame our sweet dog, Junior, for the lack of gardening! :) But, with our huge paved outside with bits of dirt around the sides and stuff, we needed some green! So, we bought some seeds from the market in town to try to have little veggie garden down one side.  And we went to a nursery in Oaxaca and bought some grass!!!!!! (3 meters of sod), 3 little trees (native to here), a mango tree, a mandarin tree, an avocado tree, a banana tree, 3 buganvillas (purple) that are across the front fence, and a "Chiquian tree" which is really just a type of small pine- but we bought one in Chiquian and it's a sweet memory (we passed it on to our friends, the Bredbenners, who still live in the mountains of Peru). So, we are thrilled with all this green! AND, for Mother's Day, John said I get to fill up our little outside concrete circle for a little raised flower spot! (I'll have to show you a picture to understand what I'm talking about!).
  • The kids are doing ok- making friends, Luke is really advancing with his Spanish!!! Elijah is just ok, he's super fine just is in the house, but it's hard on him still! He really misses Peru so bad and talks about it at least weekly.  Uncle Jeff (Holeman) is here right now for a research trip and we have LOVED seeing him.  Tonight at church, Elijah just slunk back and loved on Uncle Jeff, looking up like he was just his favorite person! So sweet! Elijah talks all the time about Uncle Jeff and Aunt Liesa and Haylee and Jackson!  And his beloved "Pe-wu!" :) (Peru)
  • Hope is SO fussy right now and I would actually ask you to pray for us on this- she was this wonderful baby 0-12 months and then, it's like she just turned into a tiny baby monster! :) I say that with all the love in my heart! But, seriously, she just gets mad at the slightest anything and screams/ whines a lot.  I hate to talk bad about my baby girl, but I would love to pray for a lot of grace and patience for me as I deal with her!!  She still has sweet moments all throughout the day, but it makes life in general, much less learning an ancient language and adapting to village life, pretty difficult! Thanks for praying for us!!
Well, that's probably enough for now! I always hate when I've fallen off, the stories seem less stale! But, hopefully, I can be more consistent! :) I might not get the pics put up tonight, but I'll try to come on here and say a quick word so you know to check!

Thanks for loving us and praying for us! Love
 
 

written by John.
This is... a little something.  It is a little something I wanted to write about each member of my family.  I am, indeed, a very blessed man.

Hope.  My little girl continues to grow up before my very eyes.  She seems to have a new word everyday (I promise she said "Doggie" today but no one else seems to have heard it).  Her big blue eyes melt my heart and she may be the best "missionary" of the family as she has started more meaningful conversations.  Her sweet smile disarms all pretenses and allows us to talk with people that are pretty skeptical of our presence.

Elijah.  My littlest man is a great kid.  He smiles all the time and brings much joy to our home. Just this morning after breakfast, he came and sat in my lap and pretended to be my puppy.  He still has so much "toddler lovin" in him... for which I'm grateful.

Luke.  Luke is one caring little boy.  Just yesterday he stopped playing and came to Hope's side so she wouldn't be left alone in her highchair (she managed to tip it over a few weeks ago).  When we came into the room a moment later and praised him, he simply told me that he was about to run out of the room when God told him to protect Hope.  He stood by her so that she couldn't tip the chair.  This is one of tons of compassionate examples that I could share.

Caleb.  What can I say about my oldest.  Ever the extrovert, he has made friends with many people since we've moved to our village.  Evidence of this could be the kids that seem to constantly stop by or the way his school lights up when he arrives.  But he isn't open to other little boys, you should have seen him play/care/love on the little girl who recently visited her grandma.  She didn't have too many playmates because she lost the ability to use her tongue (she can't talk and has a hard time eating) when she was sick as a baby.  Others may have neglected her, but Caleb played with her as hard as he could.  They were precious together.  He'll even visit with our elderly neighbor... by himself.

Jenny.  My greatest earthly treasure and the love of my life, Jenny is such a blessing to me.  Were it not for her, I wouldn't have 4 wonderful kids.  And were it not for her, my life would be much less colorful.  She has a way of brightening my day (her smile still captivates me!) and is constantly making me laugh.  As mother and missionary, I see her growing more effective almost daily.  And as a wife, I believe I could do no better.  She better resembles Proverbs 31 day by day.

I thank God for my family.
 
 
written by John.

Today has been a BIG day.  We put together our new basketball goal (I'm excited to have this since we have a concreted backyard.)  After that, Jen whipped up a delicious lunch for our  guests.  Rodolfo and Mariana are two super sweet people who have helped us with so much and are also helping us learn their language.  We had a wonderful day visiting, hearing about the old days of our village (when they operated strictly on a barter system rather than on Mexican currency).  We laughed and learned from this sweet couple who are in their sixties.  Then I heard something that has haunted me the rest of the day.

Today a man in our village died.  Today he was buried.  Today, he is in Hell.

As I reflected upon this man whom I've never met, I couldn't help but consider if his fate would have been different if the Bible existed in his language?  What if someone was sharing God's story in his language and he had heard the words of life?  What if?  Where would he be?

I thought about this as I walked down the hill this afternoon to meet with 9 believers in a neighbor's house.  Once the worship service started, we sang and clapped and prayed.  But the Pastor then did something unexpected, instead of preaching, he told a story.  I mean, I had taught him about storying the last two weeks (this is his "payment" for teaching me the language- I have to teach him how to tell Bible stories in a way that will help his people learn them and share them).  I don't know, I just didn't expect him to implement anything this quickly.  So, he told the story of Solomon, his gaining wisdom and exercising said wisdom.  He did it in Spanish and no fireworks sparked as he recounted the story.  Together, the group pieced the story together.  He then asked who could share the story.  Some did okay, others not so much.  When he got to the sweet elderly woman on the front row, I was ready for him to call it off.  She was so sad- she said she couldn't remember any of it.  Then, in the indigenous language, he addressed her for about 3 minutes.  All of a sudden, in a strong voice, she boldly retold the entire story in her OWN language!  The next lady to speak then told the same story and, again, it was told in the people's mother tongue!  The meeting ended with everyone in the room telling the story- some in Spanish, some in their language.  The pastor then, as if on cue, expressed to them why it was important for them to learn God's word and to share it with others.  He then encouraged them to share this story with others and told them they will be learning more stories.  

After the service, I took the opportunity to clarify what had happened in the other language and rejoiced to hear just how well they could recount the story.  The pastor's wife then showed me a beautiful sight, it was the Bible story told tonight that she had written out in their language, so that all can understand the story.  As she said, and as was testified tonight- "many of these people speak Spanish, but they understand in their language".  

While probably not the first time, tonight was one of the rare times when God's word was shared in this rare language.

Tonight, there is one more man in hell.  I pray that, through the Word of God powerfully spoken in this ancient language, there will be many who do not share his fate.
 
 
written by Jenny

Thank you for all who are praying for our Elijah- today went ok- however, they were short a teacher and so Elijah's class was merged with another.  So, after they formed and sang to the Mexican flag and Elijah was heading to "his class,"  another teacher (not his) came to tell him that he would be in a different class today with a different teacher! Oh, my heart just sank! Just as he was getting a little used to something, more change! Bless his heart! He did ok, though! And I found out they only have 3 days this week and then we are on break until May 2!! Yeah! I am thankful for the little break! They have been troopers, for sure!! Thanks for continuing to pray for Elijah and all of our kids (and us) as we are adjusting!! 

 
 
written by Jenny
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I remember when we first got to Costa Rica (almost 4 years ago now- woah!!), I was sawing through these Nicholas Sparks novels like crazy!! And it was just so odd- I love to read, but I was really knocking a bunch of books out! We quickly realized that this was my response to the culture shock! Since then, we've heard plenty of other stories of other people's "coping mechanisms" to culture shock! Well, our kids have been so little for so many of the big changes that have been made in their lives that we have rarely noticed big reactions in them! Well, they are getting bigger and these changes are definitely hard on their little bodies who like routine and structure and security (as does their Mama, too, by the way :) )! So, Elijah has clearly struggled the most this time with the changes!! Also, poor guy has had the "culture shock" of going to pre-school 5 days a week on top of living in a new place with a new language, people literally petting his cheeks as he walks down the street, etc.  So, Elijah's "out" has been the Wii!! He has been playing it way too much, but honestly, we are pretty much allowing him to, certainly saying no at times, but also realizing how difficult this is on them!!  So, would you please pray for our Elijah specifically this week that he would be able to adjust so well to pre-school and to our town and to Spanish?? Thank you! I would love for him to make strides in his Spanish and in making a buddy at school this week!! Thank you so much!!

 

3 prayer requests

04/05/2011

 
Written by John.

I realize many of our supporters keep up with us more now through facebook than through the website.  If you want to be our friends on facebook, simply click here and then choose either Jenny and/or John to be your friend.  Additionally, you'll find a link to me on twitter on that same page.  In addition to this info, here are three things I'd ask you to pray about on our behalf.
  1. Language:  Our people group speak a language that relatively few people in the world actually speak.  Because of this, there are very few people trying to reach these people and NOONE is doing so in there mother language.  Pray for us to learn the language and for us to have the ability to train the believers (there are a few here) to share God's story in the language of the people.  While less common now, there are people right here in town who do NOT speak Spanish.  They CANNOT hear the gospel until it is preached in their tongue.  To complicate this further, there are some younger people (under 30), who only speak Spanish as a result of the stigma associated with speaking such an uncommon language.
  2. Scripture:  We praise God that the NT has been translated into a dialect similar to the language of the people.  Unfortunately, it is different enough where it isn't easy of them to listen to/understand (I think of it as the difference between English in Great Britian and that spoken in USA).  A further problem is that there probably are 10 people in either dialect that can read their language.  They must HEAR it... otherwise a stack of NTs would do them very little good.  Pray that, through us and the believers we train, they will hear, understand and respond to God's glorious gospel.
  3. Culture:  Pray for us to adapt to the culture around in every way we can WITHOUT compromising our Faith.  Many parts of the culture here are beautiful (for instance the high importance of family).  Other parts are not- pagan practices regarding treating the sick and avoiding spirits.  Pray for us to learn the culture and that God will address the cultural aspects that are outside of His Will.  Further pray for our kids as they continue to adjust to a different place/language/culture - They are doing great, but there are still some difficult aspects for them.